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Changes in the brain’s limbic system trigger tweens to feel every emotion more strongly. It’s also why there’s so much clarity about our memories of this time, for better or worse. @callmeKi https://t.co/zzeeNm0c4S

Something to keep in mind. I'm skeptical when a parent just flips something upsetting or bothersome into a positive. I want to know about the a-z of it! I also know life is better when we get to that "I can" https://t.co/tgem4SoCIl

Kid’s birthday party, so awkward.

Son (6) was invited to his friend’s birthday party, so far we’ve been to four parties, all went pretty ok. This time it wasn’t. Son was happy to see his friends, immediately started to play. I was really amazed with the birthday girl’s home, it was beautiful and nicely decorated, like the ones you see on TV, I complimented, mom said thanks, then silence. Other parents were there too, they seemed to know each other better, still not much going on. Nobody was talking, any conversation didn’t last long. I started to feel so uncomfortable. I usually get along with other parents well, this time miracle didn’t happen. Nobody talked for than three sentences. The worst was, I felt that when I tried to continue a conversation, people didn’t bother. It was the longest two hours in this month.

I love Hape toys but was disappointed by this. Had to specifically search for the black family and they are almost double the price of the white family. Shame on them.

At what age do you think it’s appropriate for kids to be fully in adult spaces?

I’m a little torn on this and I’d like some advice as I’m sort of a foster dad and I’m still kinda finding my way. My son (15) caddies for my boss, and very good friend, most weekends. My boss pays him, frankly, unreasonably well and they have a great dynamic. Only thing is we’re going away on a golf weekend next week and Bunny (my boss) has invited my son along. He assumed it would be ok and I initially thought it was a great idea. My son is mature for his age and well behaved. However I’m a little uncomfortable, these things are very adult affairs, lots of drinking and “locker room talk” guys venting about partners and work and generally an atmosphere of debauchery. Is it to soon?

There’s no rule for how long (or short) you breastfeed for. https://t.co/dBaglae45s

Diaper cream at every change or not?

So my daughter is 15 weeks…and I’ve been putting a swipe of diaper cream at every change but I recently posted about another diaper thing and have found out that maybe you’re not supposed to do that? So I’m asking for a girl baby, diaper cream at every change or not?

In laws shaming me for my newborn baby’s acne

My newborn is 3 weeks old and just started getting some acne on her forehead area. In their family group chat they started shaming me for causing the acne due to my diet. Is this true or are they being complete idiots? I read it’s due to mothers hormones leaving the baby’s body and her pediatrician said it should go away in 1-2 months. They never mentioned anything about diet.

When your in-laws say they are going to “pop in” to say hello. What does that mean to you?

Sorry this is a bit of a rant but today is my off day and my in laws say they’re going to “pop in to say hello”. Happens to be the babies napping period where we actually have some down time. Yeah they’ve been here for 5 hours going on 6. I finally just went to take a nap with the baby and am waking up to them still here. Nothing serious. Love them. just need to rant.

My 6 year old is being bullied at school

Hi everyone, My daughter just started 1st grade a month ago. Since then she’s been bullied (spat on, kicked, hit with a lunch pal, hit with a laptop) by this little boy in her class. I’ve talked to her teacher, I’ve talked to her principal (twice now), they’ve basically said that they’re working on it and aware of the situation. I’ve asked if I could reach out to his mother because we have an app that I could send a message through.. they have said no. Does anyone have any advice? I’ve made a list of dates and incidents but I refuse to allow my child to get hurt while they figure it out..

What do you all think about adding a note about small pieces to a kids birthday invite?

Hi! I want to put a note on my sons 4th birthday party invitations to please not buy gifts with small pieces. He has a 6mo sister who of course puts everyyyything in her mouth. We also have 3 different caregivers throughout the week and it’s stresses me out since the 4yo is so demanding. What I have now is: “If you do plan to bring a gift, please have it be without small pieces to keep Annie safe :)” I’ve gotten mixed feedback from friends/family. Some think it’s really weird and others would understand if they received it. Thoughts??

I just used my own debit card for the first time!

And it felt so good. I've been stashing a portion of my direct deposit into my own checking account. And I used it to buy myself McDonald's to see if the card worked after I activated it. And it worked!!!!!!!!

Relatable..

How old was your LO when they started reaching to be picked up and gave you a hug/kiss?

Baby is 6 months and has done the hug and kiss sporadically (when he was hungry though so he could have just been trying to eat my face). He doesn’t really reach up to be picked up. Is this normal? I know like any milestone there is likely a range here. Just looking to see when others first noticed this in their LO.

Pumpkin Spice Coffee Syrup #Recipe via @ParentingPatch https://t.co/2nNdmZgYgA #coffeesyruprecipe